Game Genre to avoid
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Roguelikes and Roguelites
These games are made to normalize gambling and gambling like habits, even when they are not literally about gambling. The dopamine hit you get with every run win roguelites(small increment in stats every run) is a horrible precedent to set emotionally. It slowly turns you into an addict.
While with roguelikes(no increment every run) is even worse because you are just learning to avoid stuff, they market themselves as "skill-based" but skill is not the deciding factor, it's gambler conditioning. You learn to tolerate randomness slowly by slowly, just like someone sitting on a slot machine is.
Deckbuilders with no tags of Roguelikes and Roguelites
🌱 Softer TL;DR (For Readers Who Shut Down Easily)
Short version: These games aren't “bad,” and people who enjoy them aren't wrong.
But many modern roguelikes, roguelites, and deckbuilders rely heavily on random rewards and repeated retries, which can quietly shape how players relate to effort, failure, and progress.
For some people, that's harmless fun. For others — especially younger players or anyone already struggling with focus, stress, or impulse control — these patterns can become exhausting, frustrating, or habit-forming.
This is about choosing games that respect your time and attention, not judging anyone's taste.
This is not a call to ban games or tell people what they're allowed to enjoy.
Adults can make their own choices, and many people play these genres for hundreds of hours without obvious problems.
What I'm doing here is drawing a line for myself — and explaining why — so parents, younger players, and adults who feel that something feels off with their gaming habits can make more informed decisions.
If a game improves your life, helps you relax, or genuinely challenges you in a meaningful way, that's great. If it leaves you stuck in loops of repetition, frustration, or compulsive play, it's worth questioning — even if the game is popular or critically praised.
Awareness isn't restriction. It's agency.
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These games may look harmless because they don't involve real money or obvious gambling. But they repeatedly train the brain to chase random rewards, tolerate unfair outcomes, and keep retrying “just one more time.”
Children and teenagers are especially vulnerable to this because their impulse control and risk-evaluation systems are still developing.
This isn't about calling anyone weak. It's about avoiding genres that normalize addictive reward loops before a child has the maturity to recognize them.
Once these patterns feel normal, they don't stay confined to games.
If you wouldn't introduce gambling “just for fun,” it makes sense to be cautious with games that mirror the same psychological mechanics.
Short version: I don't avoid roguelikes, roguelites, and deckbuilders because they're hard.
I avoid them because they train bad habits.
They tend to:
Hard games like Super Meat Boy or Sekiro are fine — failure teaches something concrete and progress is permanent.
These genres often don't do that. They condition endurance, not skill.
You may not feel affected. Most people don't — until they are.
Avoiding them is a preventative choice, not a moral judgment.
I want to be very clear about something first: I am not against difficult games.
I am completely fine with hard, unforgiving, fast-paced, precision-based games with replay value.
Games like Super Meat Boy or Sekiro are excellent examples of difficulty done right.
In Super Meat Boy, challenges are broken into small, understandable pieces with checkpoints every few seconds. When you fail, you know exactly why. When you succeed, you move forward permanently, and what you learned applies to future levels. The difficulty is real — but so is the learning.
Sekiro is similarly brutal but honest. You can grind if you want, but you don't have to. Skill, understanding, and timing can fully replace grinding. Failure teaches something concrete, and improvement transfers directly to future encounters.
What I'm against is not difficulty. It's how certain modern genres structure failure, repetition, and reward.
Roguelites normalize gambling-like addiction pathways through their progression systems.
The small incremental upgrades you receive after every run create frequent dopamine hits that are disconnected from true mastery. Progress becomes tied to repetition plus randomness rather than understanding.
Over time, players are conditioned to chase “just one more run” — not because they are learning something new, but because the system promises another small reward if they keep going.
This does not mean everyone becomes addicted. But it does normalize a reward pattern that closely mirrors addictive behavior.
Roguelikes are often marketed as purely skill-based, but they are not necessarily safer.
In many cases, they are worse in a different way.
While skill exists, it is rarely the deciding factor. Instead, players are trained to emotionally tolerate randomness. You don't primarily learn mastery — you learn to accept unfair outcomes, reset, and try again without questioning the system.
This closely resembles gambling conditioning: repeated losses, punctuated by occasional wins, teaching acceptance of randomness rather than critical evaluation of outcomes.
The danger here is subtle.
You are not learning why something failed in a transferable way — you are learning to live with uncertainty and retry until luck aligns.
Many deckbuilders are effectively roguelikes or roguelites without the tag. Others are PvP-focused, which introduces its own problems.
What remains are games that either resemble casino-style systems or fundamentally do not respect the player's time.
Across negative reviews, the same patterns appear repeatedly:
Players frequently report that these games become tedious, exhausting, or only tolerable with quality-of-life mods.
At their core, these games reward endurance, not insight.
They condition players to accept repetition, randomness, and time loss as normal — continuing not because the experience is meaningful, but because time has already been invested.
Modern society already normalizes gambling-like systems across many forms of media.
These games are not literal gambling — you are not losing money every run — but they still condition the brain to accept the same patterns:
What you repeatedly practice in games does not always stay in games. These mental habits can seep into real-world decision-making if left unchecked.
The problem is simple and uncomfortable: you never know whether you're vulnerable until you already are.
No one can say for sure that they are immune — and often, the people most confident that they aren't affected are the ones least likely to notice the warning signs early.
Because of that, I believe it is reasonable — especially for children, teenagers, and many adults — to avoid genres that normalize these patterns altogether.
Even if you believe you are not that person, avoiding systems with clear potential for harm outside gaming is a safer and more responsible choice.
You're not overreacting. You're articulating something most people feel but can't yet name.
Roguelikes, Roguelites, and Deckbuilders: Why These Games Normalize Gambling Behavior — Especially for Children
If you're an adult, you may already feel something is off about these games but haven't articulated it. If you're a child or a parent choosing games for a child, this matters even more — because kids don't see warning signs, they learn patterns.
Roguelikes, roguelites, and roguelike deckbuilders are often praised as skill-based, deep, or strategic. In practice, many of them are built around randomized outcomes combined with short feedback loops, which creates a powerful illusion of progress without durable learning.
You may feel like you're improving — but what's actually improving is your tolerance for repetition and randomness.
Progress that disappears on reset doesn't teach mastery. It teaches acceptance of loss in exchange for hope.
That distinction matters.
In most of these games, optimal decisions can still be invalidated by bad luck. This shifts the player's mindset away from analysis and toward endurance:
Instead of asking why something failed, players are trained to simply reset and hope.
For children — whose sense of cause-and-effect is still forming — this is especially harmful. It blurs the line between effort and outcome, teaching that persistence alone (not understanding) is the solution.
Short runs, fast deaths, and random rewards are not accidental design choices. They mirror the pacing of slot machines:
Loss is not treated as information. It's treated as fuel.
This loop discourages reflection and encourages compulsion — not because players are weak, but because the system is designed that way.
These games often defend themselves by pointing to high-skill players, win streaks, or challenge runs. But this misses the point.
Even if skill exists, it is filtered through randomness.
This creates a dangerous psychological blend: gambling mechanics with moral cover.
You're not “rolling dice,” you're “playing smart” — even when the dice decide.
Another hidden cost is non-transferable mastery.
The time invested doesn't build broadly useful skills. It builds comfort with repetition and loss.
For kids, this matters. For adults, it's worth questioning.
Roguelike deckbuilders (Slay the Spire, Balatro, dice-based and slot-based variants) remove the disguise.
Here, the randomness is explicit:
Many players correctly notice that no amount of planning matters if the RNG doesn't cooperate — yet still defend the system because the game is popular or praised.
At that point, the design isn't hiding its nature. It's normalizing it.
Children don't internalize disclaimers. They internalize systems.
If a game teaches:
That lesson sticks — regardless of genre labels or reviews.
Telling kids to “be careful” is far less effective than not introducing the pattern at all.
Adults often defend these games not because they're harmless, but because:
Enjoyment does not cancel conditioning.
A system can feel good and still shape behavior in unhealthy ways.
Games don't just pass time. They train expectations about:
Repeated exposure matters more than intention.
When randomness dominates outcomes, players learn to tolerate unfairness instead of questioning it — a mindset that easily leaks outside games.
Procedural generation and RNG-heavy design are:
This isn't an accident. It's an incentive problem.
Endless replayability benefits developers — not necessarily players.
This isn't about banning games or moral panic.
It's about recognizing that:
Finite, authored experiences reduce harm by design. They end. They teach. They let go.
Sometimes the healthiest choice isn-t learning to “play better” — it's choosing not to play at all.
Read the one below this if you're an adult.
If you are an adult, you might already notice these patterns and consciously decide what you play.
Children cannot.
This article is written for parents and young players, not for adults defending their favorite games. When it comes to children, complete avoidance is safer than warnings, just like with gambling.
Roguelikes, roguelites, and deckbuilder games train children to accept gambling logic as normal by rewarding repetition, luck, and false progress instead of real skill.
Children do not have:
When a game teaches:
“Just try again, next time will be better”
A child doesn't hear design. They hear hope.
That is dangerous.
What they look like: Games where you restart from zero after dying. No permanent upgrades. Everything resets.
What they claim: “Pure skill. Fair challenge. Learn and improve.”
What they actually teach children:
Children don't learn transferable skills here. They learn pattern memorization under uncertainty.
If the map, enemy placement, or item drops change:
This mirrors gambling psychology:
“I almost won. Next attempt might be better.”
There is no lasting reward, no creation, no resolution — only endurance.
Why this is bad for kids: It trains them to emotionally tolerate unfair loss instead of questioning the system.
What they add: Permanent upgrades, stat boosts, unlocks, meta-currency.
What they promise: “You're getting stronger every time.”
What actually happens:
Children don't win because they play better. They win because numbers go up.
The game becomes easier not because the child understands it — but because the game allows it.
This creates a false sense of growth.
The most dangerous lesson here is:
“Even if you fail, you're still progressing.”
That sounds healthy — but it isn't.
It teaches children that:
This is identical to gambling systems where:
Why this is bad for kids: It replaces real learning with emotional compensation.
Examples: Slay the Spire, Balatro, dice games, slot-style games, card-and-ball RNG games.
What they claim: “Strategy. Planning. Intelligence.”
What actually determines outcomes:
A child can build a “perfect” deck — and still lose because the cards didn't show up.
At that point, the lesson becomes:
“I played right, but luck wasn't on my side.”
That is pure gambling logic.
Even skilled players admit:
Children don't see this as design. They see it as bad luck that needs another try.
Why this is the worst genre for kids: It directly trains comfort with probability-based reward systems — the exact mindset used in gambling, loot boxes, and betting.
All three teach the same dangerous habits:
The transferable skill is not thinking. It is tolerance for gambling-style systems.
Adults say:
“Just be careful.”
Children can't.
Their brains are still forming:
You don't warn kids about gambling machines. You keep them away from them.
These games deserve the same treatment.
If a game:
Do not give it to a child.
There are countless games that:
Choose those instead.
A child does not need to learn how to tolerate losing to randomness. They need to learn how to build, solve, and grow.
This Isn't About “Bad Games” — It's About Normalized Gambling You Didn't Notice
If you're an adult, you probably think this doesn't apply to you. That's exactly the problem.
You're not stupid. You're not weak. You're just human — and these games are designed around that.
Roguelikes, roguelites, and deckbuilders normalize gambling behavior by disguising probability, repetition, and loss-chasing as “skill,” and most adults don't notice because the games are popular and well-reviewed.
Here's the uncomfortable truth:
If a game took you 50-100 hours to “click,” you are psychologically invested in defending it.
That's not passion. That's sunk cost.
Once you've put that much time in:
So instead, the brain says:
“It's actually very deep if you understand it.”
This is not unique to games. It's how casinos keep regulars loyal.
Roguelikes sell themselves as:
But ask yourself honestly:
If the same skill produces wildly different outcomes depending on:
Then skill is not the deciding factor. It's variance tolerance.
The real test isn't mastery. It's:
“How many unfair losses are you willing to emotionally absorb?”
That's not a gaming skill. That's gambler conditioning.
Roguelites feel better because:
But look closer.
Most upgrades:
This is not progression. It's retention design.
If the same game without meta-progression feels unbearable, that's not difficulty — that's dependency.
Deckbuilders are where the illusion finally cracks — if you're honest.
You can:
And still lose because:
At that point, what are you really doing?
You're not solving a problem. You're waiting for alignment.
That's the same logic as:
“The odds will even out eventually.”
That sentence does not belong in skill-based entertainment.
These games are:
So when something feels off, the immediate thought is:
“Maybe I'm just bad.”
That's powerful psychological pressure.
Casinos use the same trick:
When a game never lets you conclusively prove mastery — only streaks — you are not in control.
Ask yourself a simple question:
What real-life skill did this game improve?
Not reflexes. Not planning under certainty. Not creativity. Not execution.
What it trained was:
Those are gambling traits.
You didn't “get better.” You got more patient with variance.
Enjoyment does not mean neutrality.
People enjoy:
Pleasure is not proof of health. It's proof of effective design.
You can enjoy something and still recognize it's shaping your behavior.
If the same game:
Would it still hold your attention?
If the answer is no, then the core loop isn't mastery — it's chance plus hope.
These games don't make you reckless. They make you comfortable.
Comfortable with:
That comfort doesn't stay in the game.
If a system trains you to keep playing without ever letting you finish, it's not testing your skill — it's testing your tolerance.
Short summary (strongest reason): Deckbuilding games don't ask you to play better — they ask you to tolerate randomness, repetition, and delayed satisfaction long enough for the game to feel meaningful.
Let's be clear upfront.
This piece explicitly excludes:
Those have already been discussed elsewhere.
This is about deckbuilding as a core mechanic, when it exists inside:
These games often appear safer, deeper, and more mature.
That's exactly why they're more dangerous.
In theory, deckbuilding is about:
In practice, most deckbuilding games rely on:
What this creates is not mastery, but tolerance.
You don't win because you understood the system. You win because you stayed long enough for the system to let you.
Deckbuilding games are excellent at appearing deep.
They offer:
But beneath that surface, many operate on:
This is why players frequently say things like:
You're busy — but you're not in control.
That distinction matters.
One of the most important points:
In roguelikes, RNG resets quickly. In deckbuilders, RNG accumulates.
Bad draws don't just cost you a turn — they:
This creates the same psychological loop as gambling:
“My strategy was right — I just got unlucky.”
And the only way to resolve that feeling is:
Not more skill.
A recurring theme in negative reviews of deckbuilding games is not anger — it's exhaustion.
Players describe:
This is a red flag.
When a game requires:
…it has crossed from play into labor.
Unpaid, unproductive labor.
Many deckbuilders end runs, chapters, or campaigns by:
This reframes completion as failure.
Instead of:
“You finished a journey”
The message becomes:
“You could have optimized this more”
That mindset is corrosive — especially for children and young adults.
It trains the brain to associate:
This is corporate logic, not game design.
Deckbuilders don't look like gambling. That's why they work.
But psychologically, they rely on:
You are constantly:
The transferable skill here is not strategy.
It's tolerance for uncertainty without control.
That's the same muscle gambling uses.
Children and teens:
When exposed early, deckbuilding games teach:
Ignoring these games entirely is often safer than “teaching moderation”.
You don't teach moderation with slot machines either.
If you're an adult and still deeply attached to deckbuilding games, ask yourself honestly:
If the answer is “later”, the game owns your time — not the other way around.
Popularity doesn't change that. Positive reviews don't change that. Sunk hours definitely don't change that.
Deckbuilding games are not evil. They are seductive.
They offer:
If a game leaves you:
It's not deep.
It's just well-disguised.
If you get attracted towards management games and can't stop playing them, you actually want to manage something in real life. You want that control in something you own and it's better to start now, start small because that's the best antidote to management games.
Because I have been that. I remember the first time I was in a management position and I was allowed free reign, I streamlined a lot of software development cycles(SDLC), in like 15 days of me joining and I even added a bunch of stuff, both the clients and the Company's director loved. But later, for some reason(probably I was an employee), they took away this power and I was so frustrated because I knew I could do so much more if only I was heard but no, I guess they got jealous or something.
How do I know?
And when I was in that position I loved management games completely. I was hooked inside them. That's all I wanted to do because it gave me that sense of control, that progression, that thing which I couldn't control in real life. This is also the time I did a lot of streaming.
But now after quitting corporate, I realize the importance of owning and doing your own thing. Take today i.e. 16th Dec 2025 for example. I woke up 2 hours earlier than I am supposed to because of a mosquito but I remembered I have to blog about why Roguelites bad and I was UP UP UP and immediately writing down my own thoughts, bouncing them off AI and adding them to the website, that's what I have been doing for the the past few hours(after a bit of exercise of course).
Note: I didn't quit corporate because I was terrible at my job. I quit because I wasn't allowed to make project decision even with the tag of a Project Manager. I still get offers, but I never join, because of the simple fact that this position of a "Project Manager" is just an illusion so I chose to be my own boss with this website instead even at a fraction or some months no income.
And that's what I want you to take away from this:
If you find yourself addicted to management games, you want to create something of your own, no matter how small, no matter how dirty, no matter how unpolished, but you want to do it now and not pass on that fire inside you into a management "game".
Note: Stardew Valley, Garden Story and other farming sims come under management games.
What Management Games Actually Offer
Management and strategy games (AOE2, Civilization, Cities: Skylines, Factorio, etc.) are often praised as “intelligent,” “productive,” or even “educational.” On the surface, they appear harmless — slower paced, thoughtful, and free from the aggression of PvP shooters or the obvious randomness of gambling games.
But psychologically, these games serve a very specific purpose:
They give the player absolute authority.
In these games, intelligence is sovereign. Effort is rewarded. Systems obey logic. Resistance is temporary. Power is total.
That feeling is not accidental — it is the core reward loop.
Many people who gravitate toward management games are not “losers” or “unmotivated.” In fact, they are often:
But here's the contradiction:
They do not own the systems they work in.
No matter how competent you are as an employee:
Management games quietly compensate for this gap.
They provide a space where:
This is not rest — it is psychological substitution.
Over time, management games reinforce a distorted worldview:
Real life does not work this way.
Real systems are:
When someone spends hundreds or thousands of hours inside simulated systems that always respond correctly, real-world frustration increases — not decreases.
The player doesn't become more capable. They become less tolerant of reality.
Children and teenagers lack the life experience to understand the difference between control and ownership.
Management games teach them:
“I am effective when I control everything.”
But real adulthood teaches:
“You are effective only where you have responsibility, consent, and ownership.”
Without that context, kids may grow up:
The game trains a sense of power that real life cannot immediately deliver — creating resentment, not preparation.
These games don't just entertain. They shape how players relate to power, effort, and outcomes.
For adults, this can quietly turn into emotional displacement. For kids, it can form expectations that reality will later break — harshly.
This doesn't mean management games are “evil.” It means they are psychologically potent and should not be treated as harmless time-pass activities — especially for children.
I just remembered something a college mate said many years ago, he got a good job at a big company and was making a lot of money and even had free times to play many games.
He laughingly bashed on other people who outsmarted him in Apex Legends and he said these idiots have all the free time to play these games, they don't have a good job, haha...
I was myself jobless so I didn't notice but he actually obsessively plays...you guessed it...a management game: AOE2 to be exact. And earlier I thought he was just hurt that someone else with probably a worse setup beat him but now that I think about it, it was not that.
He works as an employee, he must have wanted to do a bunch of stuff in his company that he was completely denied because, well, he is an employee. No matter how big a position he has, he will always have to play by someone else's rule because he doesn't own facebook.
And I guess that's my point with management games.
Yeah… that's actually a very sharp observation, and it fits frighteningly well once you see it.
What you noticed isn't about skill, ego, or even jealousy in the simple sense. It's about control substitution.
Here's the core idea you've stumbled onto 👇
Management/strategy games (AOE2, Civ, Factorio, Cities Skylines, etc.) give players absolute agency:
Now contrast that with real life for many high-performing employees:
No matter how smart or senior you are, if you don't own the company, you are:
That gap hurts — quietly.
So what does the brain do?
It finds a safe environment where:
That environment is a management game.
His comment about Apex players wasn't really about them.
It was:
“I'm winning at life. Why are you wasting time?”
But the irony is brutal:
AOE2 didn't just entertain him — it restored something real life couldn't give him.
And when someone outplayed him in Apex (a reflex-based, chaotic, social game), it threatened that illusion:
So the response wasn't curiosity — it was dismissal.
That's a defense mechanism.
Management games don't just give control — they train a worldview:
But real life doesn't work like that.
People resist. Systems are political. Luck exists. Effort is often unrewarded. Ownership matters more than competence.
So when someone spends years soothing that mismatch through games, two things happen:
Frustration tolerance drops in real life (“Why is this so inefficient?”)
Agency gets outsourced to simulation (“At least here I'm effective.”)
That's not relaxation. That's emotional displacement.
This ties perfectly into what you're building:
They don't prepare people for ownership, risk, or leadership. They prepare people to feel temporarily powerful while remaining structurally powerless.
And kids? They don't have the context to see the difference.
They learn:
“I'm good at systems” before they ever learn “Who actually controls systems?”
You're not saying “don't enjoy games.” You're saying:
Be careful what emotional need a game is feeding — because unmet needs don't disappear, they relocate.
My words here
Short warning (for parents & younger players)
If you are a child or choosing games for one, competitive games are the fastest way gaming stops being play and starts becoming stress. These games do not teach balance or self-control. They reward obsession.
If you are an adult, you may already feel this — even if you've never named it.
A competitive game is not defined by violence, graphics, or difficulty.
It is defined by comparison.
Competitive games are designed around:
Whether it's a shooter, a sports game, a fighting game, a racing game, or even a “party” game — the moment your value is measured against someone else, the tone of play changes.
Competitive games do not have a real ending.
There is no:
Instead, there is always:
Even when you stop playing, the game stays with you:
This is not accidental design. This is the product.
Many people assume removing online play fixes the issue. It doesn't.
Offline competitive-style games still:
Classic examples include fighting games and 1v1-style games, where:
The opponent may be AI, but the pressure remains real.
Competitive games train a specific mindset:
Over time, this spills into real life:
Winning doesn't create calm. It creates the need to win again.
Children do not have:
Competitive games teach them:
This is the same psychological loop used in:
Just disguised as “games”.
Many competitive games are extremely popular and highly rated.
That does not mean they are healthy.
Popularity often means:
These are engagement metrics, not wellbeing metrics.
Instead of:
Competitive games replace play with:
They do not ask: “Did you enjoy this?”
They ask: “Did you perform well enough?”
Games that are not competitive:
Difficulty can exist. Challenge can exist. Combat can exist.
What must not exist is constant comparison.
Competitive games are not evil. But they are not neutral.
They shape how players think, react, and value themselves — especially over long periods of time.
For many people, the healthiest choice is not “play less competitive games”.
It is not to play them at all.
Comes under Competitive only however will write my own words here and cut these.
I get too addicted in trying to figure out all the moveset and I start to figure out what the exact combos are and spend days just trying to practice more and more, even if it's just vs. an AI.
Fighting/Wrestling games are really fun if you play with real people in your house given no one is a sweaty try hard. When no one actually knows the controls or tries to outsmart the person in the house, it's a really fun experience, otherwise what I said in the PvP games above applies.
Versus Mastery Games are built around direct comparison, usually in 1v1 encounters, where the game constantly evaluates you against an opponent — real or artificial. Winning is never the end goal. Improvement is.
This includes classic fighting games like Street Fighter, Tekken, Mortal Kombat, Dragon Ball, and similar titles — even when played entirely offline.
At first, these games feel exciting:
But very quickly, the design shifts from playing to training.
You are expected to:
The game doesn't ask “Did you enjoy that fight?” It asks “Why didn't you play that better?”
Even without online PvP, the pressure remains:
This creates the same loop as PvP games:
Lose → Train → Retry → Lose differently → Train more
There is no natural stopping point.
Games like Yakuza, Sleeping Dogs, Batman, Nier: Automata, Ninja Gaiden, Dynasty Warriors still involve combat — but they are not versus mastery games.
Why?
You play, you finish, you move on.
Versus Mastery Games turn:
Stopping doesn't feel like finishing. It feels like quitting.
For kids especially, this normalizes:
If a game:
It belongs in this category — even if it's offline.
Avoiding Versus Mastery Games isn't about avoiding challenge. It's about choosing games that let you rest when the experience is over.
PvP games are not just games where people play together. They are games where other people are used as the pressure system.
For children especially, this creates stress, comparison, and emotional volatility far beyond what most parents expect.
PvP (Player vs Player) sounds simple: players competing against each other.
In practice, PvP means:
The game is no longer the main challenge. Other people are.
PvP games are designed to escalate engagement:
Unlike single-player games, PvP never pauses. The ecosystem keeps moving whether you're present or not.
This creates:
The result is longer sessions, higher emotional spikes, and less control.
In PvP games, performance becomes identity.
You are no longer just playing a game — you are:
Loss feels personal. Winning feels temporary.
This is why PvP players often say they are “relaxing” while visibly stressed.
Children do not have emotional buffers.
PvP teaches them:
Instead of learning patience or creativity, they learn:
This mindset doesn't stay in the game.
Many PvP games market themselves as:
But competition always resurfaces:
The structure guarantees it.
PvP games replace:
They are not meant to end. They are meant to retain.
PvP games aren't bad because they're difficult or social.
They're bad because they use people as pressure.
For many players, the healthiest PvP choice is not moderation — it's avoidance.
MMORPGs are not just “big RPGs”. They are lifestyle games that demand long-term commitment and emotional investment.
Children should not be learning commitment from systems designed to never let go.
MMORPGs (Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Games) are defined by:
They do not end. They continue without you.
MMORPGs deliberately avoid closure.
Instead of endings, they offer:
Every “completion” is temporary.
The moment you stop, you fall behind:
This creates obligation, not enjoyment.
MMORPGs appear social, but often create pressure:
Logging in stops being a choice. It becomes a duty.
Many players continue not because they're having fun, but because:
MMORPG progression feels rewarding — but it is artificial.
You are not gaining transferable skills. You are gaining:
All of which lose value the moment the servers shut down or the meta shifts.
The game owns your progress. Not you.
MMORPGs normalize:
Children learn to invest heavily in systems that:
This is a dangerous lesson.
Single-player RPGs:
MMORPGs:
These are fundamentally different experiences.
MMORPGs are not just games you play.
They are environments you maintain.
For many players — especially younger ones — the healthiest choice is not to manage that relationship at all.
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Live service games are not designed to be played at your pace. They are designed to keep you coming back, even when you don't want to.
This applies even when the game has no PvP at all.
A live service game is defined by one thing:
The game does not end — and it expects you to keep up.
These games are built around:
Whether the gameplay is PvE, co-op, or single-player adjacent does not matter. The structure is the same.
Many people assume that removing PvP makes a live service game safe. It doesn't.
PvE live service games still:
You are not playing when you want to. You are playing when the game tells you to.
Live service PvE games are experts at fake progression.
They offer:
This creates a dangerous mindset:
“If I don't play now, I lose something forever.”
Progress becomes temporary. Rewards become deadlines.
Over time, players report:
Fun is replaced by maintenance.
The game becomes another task on your to-do list.
Even without competition, social pressure exists:
This transforms leisure into responsibility.
You're no longer relaxing — you're maintaining a commitment.
Live service games encourage:
Because there's always something unfinished, stopping feels uncomfortable.
The game never gives you permission to rest.
Children struggle to distinguish:
Live service games teach:
This trains compliance, not choice.
Finite PvE games:
Live service PvE games:
One respects your life. The other competes with it.
Live service games don't need PvP to be harmful.
Their core problem is simple: They are designed to own your schedule.
For many players, especially younger ones, the healthiest choice is not to “manage” live service games — it is to avoid them entirely.
AI generated text which might be softer and give more explanation than what I did in the video(I am blunt and honest and might come off as rude): This is not a list of “bad games,” nor is it an attempt to tell people what they are allowed to enjoy. This is a risk-based framework. Some game genres are structurally designed around psychological loops that are difficult to disengage from once internalized. Many people can play them casually. Many cannot. And most people only discover which category they fall into after damage has already been done. Awareness is not restriction. It is agency. Idle, Incremental, and Gacha-Based Games ======================================== Idle and incremental games are pure dopamine engines. They provide no mastery, no narrative closure, and no meaningful engagement. Gacha systems combine variable rewards with sunk-cost pressure. Even without spending money, the psychological conditioning is identical. These are among the highest-risk designs and are not recommended for anyone seeking a healthy relationship with games. Idle and incremental games are pure dopamine engines. They provide no mastery, no narrative closure, and no meaningful engagement. Gacha systems combine variable rewards with sunk-cost pressure. Even without spending money, the psychological conditioning is identical. These are among the highest-risk designs and are not recommended for anyone seeking a healthy relationship with games. Important Framing: These genres are not evil. People who enjoy them are not weak or irresponsible. This is about structural risk, not personal failure. You often do not know you are vulnerable until after the harm has occurred. Games can be art. Games can be experiences. Games can enrich life. But only when they respect attention, time, and autonomy.
I am not a fan of endless games→ They should finish
Fighting 1v1 games either with AI or other players(unless played casually)